My personal motto is "Be Curious, Not Judgemental" - it's how I live now.

Since 2020, I have immersed myself in learning, practicing, and playing with the concepts of the Wheel with my mentor and our local community of "Wheelheads" in Austin, Texas. 

It has quite literally transformed my life. 

Now I offer my services to folks who want to learn how to create beautiful, consensual pathways for expressing their desires and experiencing the 

Joy of Consent. 

All of you is welcome here!

My Offerings

For Anyone:

• The Art of Consent. For individuals who desire to mindfully explore, unfold, and expand their own power in asking for what they want. This is an in-person, 3-month program where we will meet weekly, consciously following a path to your full embodiment of consent. You will learn and master the subtle - yet powerful - art of receiving and giving. 
• Expanding Consent & Desire. For couples and polyamorous folks. I will facilitate your exploration in working together to tap the well of desire within your relationship(s). This in-person, 3-month program will take you to the places that each of you have always wanted to go, but have never asked for. In our weekly sessions, we will explore the art of receiving and giving, the subtleties of "who is it for?" and the magic of expressing your own deepest desires without shame or shyness. 
• The Desire Deep Dive. For couples and polys. Book an exclusive, all-inclusive weekend retreat with me to dive in and master your own ability for receiving, giving, and expressing & receiving what you desire. This experience will awaken your senses, expand your ability to access your deep desires, and catapult you into a new reality in your relationship(s). 
• A Taste of Consent. For individuals or folks in relationships. Spend a morning or afternoon exploring your access to embodied desire and reaching consent with a full heart. Warning! You will likely be left with wanting more than just a taste... and yet this unforgettable experience will begin to awaken the channels of embodied pleasure so that you can live a life of fulfilled desires. 
• Consensual Cuddling. For people of any orientation. Enjoy the magic, joy, and bliss of a wonderful, platonic, clothes-on cuddle session. And especially for anyone who has had challenges with trusting others, or feeling uncomfortable or unsettled when cuddling - maybe wondering if the other person really wanted more - I'm right here for you. I will always honor your limits and ask for your permission to touch you when we cuddle. You will feel what it's like to have your boundaries completely respected while sinking happily into the bliss of cuddling. 

For Wheelheads:

• Individual Quadrant Practice/Play. For folks of any orientation. Have you completed a Wheel of Consent workshop or worked with me, and still want to explore "the quadrants" in deeper ways? Then this is for you! We will review the dynamics of the Wheel and then practice together. You will be able to express your authentic desires and have them heard. Then we'll establish consent for those desires you wish to practice - and then it's game on! 
• Wheelhead Dojos (Dates TBA). Join other Wheelheads to review the dynamics of the Wheel and then collaboratively practice serve-accept and take-allow. These are clothes-on, no invasive touch events where we co-create a mindful, blissful, and joyful experience! 

For Practitioners: 

• Collaborative Client Education. If you are a relationship, intimacy, or human performance coach, looking for an extra dimension to help your clients reach a deeper experience of finding and delving into their heart's desires... let's explore how we can collaborate to bring them a unique, empowering new perspective that enables them to access joy and bliss through consent.  
• Events: Speaking and Experiences. Do you host and/or facilitate events, get-away retreats, conferences, etc. where deep topics such as asking for and receiving your heart's desire are explored? Then the Joy of Consent fits right in! Please contact me with your desire so that we can co-design a unique, heart-opening experience custom tailored just for your audience.

And.. if you feel a compelling desire to work with me in some way that is not on the menu above, just get in touch and we'll explore creating an experience which would be just the right flavor for you! 

Howdy! I'm Jay Gerring, and I'm a Relationship and Intimacy Empowerment Guide and Educator. The work I do is based on The Wheel of Consent, originated by Dr. Betty Martin.

Contact Me

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Please contact me via the form below for more information and costs for any item on the menu above. Talk soon!