Personal Accountability & Ethics Statement

1. Scope of Practice & Professional Guidance

I am a Relationship and Intimacy Empowerment Guide and Educator. While my work can be deeply transformative, it is not a substitute for licensed mental health therapy or medical treatment.

• •Customized Experience: My work is tailored to each individual, couple, or your unique relationship formation. Because we work somatically, we may go beyond the "talk only" format of traditional therapies.
• •Physical Touch: My offerings (such as Consensual Cuddling or Quadrant Practice) may include touch. This is always negotiated via a clear agreement beforehand, and either party can pause or stop the touch at any time for any reason.
• •Referrals: If I determine that your needs fall outside my scope of practice, I will be direct about that. While I do not maintain a permanent vetted list, I will actively research and provide referrals to practitioners who may be a better fit for your journey.

2. The Wheel of Consent® Relationship

Although I am not currently a certified Wheel of Consent facilitator, I am deeply trained in the concepts and practices of the Wheel. I have immersed myself in this model since 2020 under the mentorship of certified teachers. I use the Wheel of Consent materials in my workshops as a practitioner following the School of Consent guidelines, which allow for the integration of these tools by non-certified professionals who have completed professional training.

3. Power Dynamics & Guiding

In our work, I hold a position of "Guide." This means I facilitate the container, but you are the authority on your own body and your "Yes" and your "No."

• •Interactive Collaboration: Unlike a rigid teacher-student model, our work is highly interactive. I am a participant in the "game" of consent with you, and I am committed to modeling the same boundaries and transparency I teach.
• •The Right to Withdraw: Consent is a moving target, not a one-time signature. You have the absolute right to change your mind, opt-out of an exercise, or end a session at any point without judgment or "explanation" required.

4. Financial Integrity

• •Fixed Pricing: Events like Wheelhead Dojos or workshops have fixed pricing. I may offer "early bird" discounts to reward early commitment.
• •Flexibility & Agreements: For my 3-month programs (The Art of Consent or Expanding Consent), I am open to negotiating payment plans or reduced rates based on need. However, once we agree to a schedule, I expect it to be honored. Services will be paused or terminated if payments are not received per our written agreement.
• •Referral Fees: I may occasionally receive a referral fee from another practitioner if you join their program. However, I will never refer you to a program or person based on a financial kickback; I only make referrals that I believe are in your best interest.
• •Refund Policy: I do not generally offer refunds for my programs and services. However, for workshops, you may transfer the program fee to a future workshop. For my services, any potential refunds will depend on the type of service and the term of the service delivery. In all cases, unexpected circumstances may arise that are best handled via a refund and I may issue partial or full refunds based on special circumstances.

5. Accountability & Grievances

I strive to be "curious, not judgmental," and that includes being curious about my own mistakes. If I ever miss the mark or if a "rupture" occurs in our work:

• •Direct Resolution: I invite you to bring it to my attention directly. I am committed to a repair process that centers your safety and my integrity.
• •Independent Oversight: If a situation arises that you do not feel comfortable discussing with me, or if you feel a grievance has not been addressed, you may contact the Independent Sacred Kings Integrity Council. I am a Sacred Kings Integrity Certified Member. Their certification is not a professional license, but provides a strong and public framework for reinforcing my accountability to my clients.

6. Scope of Practice & Competency

I commit to only offering services in which I have been adequately trained and feel competent to guide. I am a dedicated student of somatic consent and intimacy; I regularly engage in continuing education, peer workshops, and personal practice to ensure my skills remain sharp and my presence remains grounded. If a request falls into an area where I do not feel I can safely or effectively guide you, I will tell you so.

7. Confidentiality & Privacy

Your journey is your own. I maintain strict confidentiality regarding our sessions, your identity, and the details of your personal life.

• •Exceptions: The only exceptions to this are if I am legally required to report a risk of imminent harm to yourself or others, or in cases of suspected abuse of a child or vulnerable adult.
• •Digital Privacy: I use secure platforms for communication and will never sell or share your contact information with third parties.